Two years ago I created a persona for myself called “Super Spiritual Girl” in which I offer videos I’ve created. In my opinion, it’s a great name; it’s catchy and playful. And “playful” is something I need more of in my life. It’s a great reminder for me, as I tend to take things far too seriously, much of the time. Still, my comfort level with the name wavers. I met a woman recently, who asked me why I’m not stepping into the Super Spiritual Girl persona more. She loves the name and I suggested I could have a lot more fun with it. I agreed, and tried to explain my resistance to it; why I wasn’t playing it up more. It’s a simple reason: Fear… [Read more...]
Finding Resolve Within
March 29, 2010
It’s hard to end friendships but ultimately I believe actions speak louder than words. And it’s become essential to me to only pursue healthy relationships. When unsure I’ve learned to ask myself,
Does this friendship still serve me?
And if the answer is no, the friendship is over. I’m a busy gal and I deserve better. Talk is cheap. Show me the love… [Read more...]
Seeing the Light: Owning our Patterns
March 16, 2010
My girlfriend Sadie has been single as long as I’ve known her. She is beautiful, sweet, intelligent and successful. She actively dates and I hear the same stories over and over from her… He still hasn’t called. He called but he’s too busy to see her right now. He’s busy with work, so had to cancel again. It seems as though she is one of those women who can’t admit when a guy just isn’t that into her.
We all are blind in some way or another. And here’s the key to seeing the light: [...]